Are you stuck?
In 2015 I was stuck in a bad way.
I had just broken up with my girlfriend. I lost 2/3 of my clients in my insurance business due to a major rate change, and was on track to lose my $600/month apartment.
I was broke, depressed, and felt like I had wasted 5 years of personal development and hustle only to end up as broke (technically more broke) than I had been in 2010 working as a manager at a fast food restaurant.
After spending a couple weeks sleeping in my office, ( I was eventually found out and told that I couldn't sleep there anymore) a friend of mine allowed me to move in with him, provided I pay rent.
To make a long story short, I worked too much, drank too much, smoked too much, and nothing really improved...
But, I did 1 thing during that time period that completely changed how the next 5 years of my life have turned out.
Since then, I've made more money, gotten into phenomenal physical health, found a partner that's exactly what I want & need, moved to a tropical paradise, and ultimately - live a life I couldn't have imagined 5-6 years ago when everything was falling apart.
So what was that 1 thing?
I found and developed a process for shifting my paradigms.
Paradigm
1. A typical example or pattern of something; a model.
- A worldview underlying the theories and methodology of a particular scientific subject.
I found a way to change or shift my mental models, frameworks, perceptions and ideas about the world and my situation that allowed me to change everything else in my life.
I got REALLY GOOD at un"stucking" myself, and breaking through barriers and plateaus on a regular basis.
This skill has allowed me to move exponentially faster when tackling goals like losing 50 lbs over the course of 9 months, doubling my income in under 12 months, and moving to a tropical island home with an amazing view of the ocean all year...
What I found through this process was that it's actually very simple to change your life in a big way.